Here’s what to do if you receive a party invitation via:
TEXT MESSAGE: RSVP within 1-24 hours. A text message invite is so casual that the party is probably only days away. This type of invite may not even require an RSVP, but it’s always polite to let your host/hostess know so they can be more prepared. B.Y.O.B.!
EMAIL: It would be polite to RSVP within 1-3 days. Alcohol will be the perfect party gift.
PHONE CALL: A phone call invite might make you feel obligated to say, “YES” on the spot. It’s better to check your calendar first so you don’t double-book yourself. Respond via phone call or give an in-person response no later than 24-72 hours. Offer to cook or bake something you’re stellar at making.
SNAIL MAIL: (I love snail mail! It’s my favorite.) Make sure to RSVP no later than the RSVP date. If they have included a response card- BE SURE not to lose it! Sometimes sending it back to the sender right away is the best way not to lose that tiny little card. Take your host/hostess something they would use in their home. A bottle of nice wine is best if you don’t know them that well.